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Colleen Doran's avatar

Edited one date, should have been 2023 not 1993. Oops.

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A great and educational piece. I've been broke most of my adult life, and only recently did I have a long-simmering deal finally hit and make me not-broke. I have savings for the first time in forever, and I'm still adapting to it, and trying not to be dumb about the little chunk of change I've ended up with (it's not even six figures, but it's a high five... which is very high for me.)

The (reasonable) fear that I'll blink and be back to worrying about the rent and the health insurance payment is too strong for me to enjoy the current moment as much as I'd like to.

I think of my dad, who grew up in the Depression. We had a period of relative wealth from the late sixties through the mid seventies, but when my mother would make a dinner that included a protein and a vegetable AND a salad, my father would wonder aloud what we were celebrating. What's the special occasion? (To be clear, he'd say this with pleasure not with judgement that my mom was being wasteful.) The trauma of his childhood set the bar on "wealthy" at "dinner which comes with a salad."

After forty plus years as a freelancer, I understand completely. My definition of comfort is "not doing math in the grocery store."

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